Our True Home

You don't have a soul. You are a Soul. You have a body.
– C. S. Lewis

There is a simple truth that the world does not understand, for it cannot fathom an existence outside of itself. It sees the boundaries of this universe and this life as the limits of our existence. It sees birth as the only beginning, and death as the only end.

Yet as Christ followers, we must not allow ourselves to be overtaken by the thoughts of this world, for it is run by the wisdom of men, which is limited and foolish. No, we must understand this simple truth, and we must apply it to every facet of our lives.

The truth is this: Earth is not our home, and these bodies are not our true existence. God knew each of us by name before he breathed the world into being. God made us in His image, and we are His children, and citizens of His kingdom. This Earth is simply a temporary home for our physical bodies, and we cannot become so caught up in its ways to forget that our true home is much greater. Once our life in this world has come to an end, we will return to our true home, leaving these bodies behind, where God will grant us new bodies in Heaven.

So do not view this world as your home, and do not allow yourself to become part of the world. We are the children of God, sent to be in the world, but not of the world. We must not see things as the world sees them, living for today, disregarding the eternity to come. The world is empty and hollow, for it fills itself with possessions and pleasure. These are things with a thirst that will never be quenched, for the things of this world will never satisfy. We must set our eyes upon the only true source, the one living God, looking forward to the day when we will return home.

The Reason for Holiness

The single greatest cause of atheism in the world today is Christians, who acknowledge Jesus with their lips, then walk out the door, and deny Him by their lifestyle. That is what an unbelieving world simply finds unbelievable.
- Brennan Manning

As followers of Christ, we should be living our lives in purity and holiness, not straying into the sinful ways of the world. Indeed, we are all sinners, yet we should be holding ourselves up to Godly standards. The world is a dark place, full of seductive temptations that threaten to pull us in and take us over, yet our foundation should be in the hands of our creator, so that when the world comes calling, we can stand on the foundation of Christ and not be overtaken.

Yet, why does it matter? The Bible teaches that we are all sinners, and that none of us is righteous, not even one. Are we risking our salvation by living in sin? No, though one may need to question whether he or she was ever truly saved, should they decide to depart so greatly from the teachings they once clung to. Yet, once salvation is truly secured, sin can no longer separate you from the eternity to come in Heaven. Scripture does say that those who follow God’s commandments will have a richer life, and a closer walk with Him, yet if we all end up in the same Heaven, what was truly gained? For this life is only measured in years, while the next life is incalculable.

While we should certainly seek a closer, more intimate relationship with God, I believe that the most important reason to live a life of holiness has very little to do with the quality of one’s own life. Indeed, if I live according to the commandments, my life will be blessed, yet a longer, more profitable life is not the point. Here is the point, which is twofold: first, as the quote at the top of this entry says, a Christ follower living a hypocritical life of sin will only drive away those who are unbelievers. We preach holiness and purity, yet if we do not follow our own teachings, how does that look to the unbelieving world? We look like fools, saying one thing, yet doing another. Why would anyone seek the church and a relationship with God, if all they see are believers who are hypocrites?

The second part is this: a person living a Godly life, following His commandments, becomes a stronger, more able tool for the Kingdom. God will be more able and more likely to use such people to spread His message, for their lives are not weighed down by sin. The effect on the unbelieving world will be greater for those that live a Christ-centered, holy life, and I believe this to be the greatest reason for righteous living. Our lives on this Earth should not be centered around prosperity, but around our savior, Jesus Christ, and the message of salvation that He has given us. We should seek to spread that good news to the ends of the Earth, for all else will fade. There will come a day when the world has run out of chances to accept Jesus, and those who have rejected Him will be sent away into the fire. I would give my life to save the eternity of just one person, and we may be able to help others come to Christ simply by the way we live.

So do not give into the temptations of the world, not for yourself, but for the unbelievers, so that you may be the tool that God will use to bring them back to Him. For if they look at you and do not see the light of God in your actions, they may shake their head and turn away, and be forever lost.

The Ultimate Dunking Machine

It was a warm day in the summer of 1992, when two boys in southern Ohio set their sights higher than they ever had before. No, it was not greatness, nor wealth, nor power, but a height they saw as just as lofty. All they needed was a little boost.

I was ten years old, playing basketball with David, my fifteen-year-old brother. We, along with our father and other members of our family, would often play Pig, for I never played the variety known as Horse until I later moved to Minnesota. I was not terribly successful in our competitions, yet I always enjoyed them.

One day, however, the simplicity of Pig was not enough to quench our growing imaginations. The basketball hoop in our driveway was teen feet tall, and I had not yet grown enough even to come close to touching the net. My brother could almost touch the net, and could use a chair to reach that height. We then had a flash of insight, one that we knew to be the perfect plan. It was a plan that would bring us closer to the rim, up to and above it, granting us the ability to dunk the ball through the hoop, as every young basketball fan dreams of. It was a plan that we would have never been able to do, had our parents been home at the time.

In the back of our house, underneath the deck, there were several blocks of wood, four inches square, with many a foot in length. We stacked them underneath the hoop in strategic positions, for it was not enough for us to simply jump from blocks of wood, for that would not have allowed us to achieve our goal. No, we needed something more; something with more height. Something with bounce.

The bounce came from a small trampoline we had in the garage. We placed it upon the blocks, then stepped back and admired our creation. It was the ultimate dunking machine. We knew it would work, for it was so simple.

David volunteered to test it first. I recall that moment, for a thought ran through my mind: the structure isn’t stable. Yet, I knew it would work out, for we had built it well. It was a masterful construction, using several blocks of inconsistent lengths to hold a foot-high trampoline. What could go wrong?

We soon found out. David started from the far corner of the driveway and ran toward the structure, leaping through the air, and landing firmly with his foot on the trampoline.

At that moment, we both realized something. We may have been kids with dreams; we were not, however, architects. As David landed, the structure collapsed, and the basketball went flying into our neighbor’s yard. He landed hard on the cement, and seemed to be in a daze for a few seconds, unsure of what had just happened. I, on the other hand, as almost any brother would, burst out laughing. While our attempt at rising high had failed, there’s just something about sibling rivalry that makes you laugh at such failure.

Within a few moments, however, the truth was revealed. My brother had fractured his wrist. Within minutes, he was in our neighbor’s car, heading for the hospital. I stayed home and disassembled our ultimate dunking machine. I informed my parents of the broken arm upon their arrival home, though I did not tell them the full story.

Now, many years later, this story makes me smile. I smile at remembering our older brother, Erik, laughing when he first heard the news. I smile at the fact that, several years later, I caved and told my parents the full story. I smile at how foolish we were, despite thinking our plan to be infallible.

While I can look back at the story and smile, I know each one of us still does things like this, even as adults. We try to reach for great heights, despite having an unstable foundation. We reach for things that we should not reach for, and put ourselves in danger by relying on our own intellect and wisdom.

In Genesis 11, the Bible teaches of the Tower of Babel, a structure that men built to reach into the heights of Heaven. While there were other reasons God did not want them building such a structure, it was not built for the right reasons. Men built it to flaunt their power and abilities. Eventually, God intervened, halting the tower’s production and scattering those men to the ends of the earth.

I believe we each have such towers in our lives. We have things that we trust to no one else, not even God. We rely on only ourselves for certain things. We attempt to better ourselves without giving that part of ourselves to God. Just like the two boys, on a warm day in southern Ohio, we build pieces into our lives using our own human wisdom, for we cannot fathom anyone else understanding things as we do. Yet, our plans then crumble, for they were not built on a firm foundation, for only God provides us with true stability. It is not through our own strength that we will find success, but through the wisdom that comes from loving, knowing, and trusting God.

As humans, we all need to take a step back from ourselves. Through prayer, the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and the examination of ourselves, we can find those areas where we have reliance on our own strength, and through God, we can begin to hand over such things to Him. We may look at our own wisdom and believe it to be perfect, yet, when we do that, we forget that we are equipped with finite, flawed minds. To rely on such a thing is folly. We are foolish if we believe ourselves more capable that God, for our own plans will crumble and collapse, while the hopes of those who rely on God are unshaken.

Cursed is the one who trusts in man, who draws strength from mere flesh and whose heart turns away from the LORD. That person will be like a bush in the wastelands; they will not see prosperity when it comes. They will dwell in the parched places of the desert, in a salt land where no one lives. But blessed is the one who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him. They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.

- Jeremiah 17: 5-8

Flawed

But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.
- 2 Corinthians 12:8-10

I am aware of a wide variety of personal flaws in my life, yet many of them are interconnected and have the same source. I certainly am flawed in other ways that are unrelated, some of which have been described in a previous entry.

I have found that the source for many of the issues I struggle with is this: and definite lack of self-confidence. It seems like such a minor thing, and yet it infiltrates many fragments of my life. I believe the issue to be strictly self-confidence and not self-esteem, for I do not question my worth, for I know I have great value in God's eyes. No, I am instead constantly questioning what I am capable of. I find myself often doubting my competence and intelligence, leading me to fail at things I may otherwise succeed at.

I believe the root of this issue to be my grade school years. When I was younger, specifically in my fourth to eighth grade years, I was picked on profusely at school. It was everyday, and it was brutal. I remember coming home crying on occassions, telling my parents that I never wanted to go back to school again. I was told by many people to simply ignore it, and the bullies would stop. I tried, yet the bullying never ceased. Everything I did was mocked. I began to believe that I couldn't do anything right. I doubted my every move. This had several repurcussions that I am still struggling with today.

It made me hide in my comfort zone. I began to blend into the background, for only there did I feel safe. In your comfort zone, you do not risk failure, and you do not expose your flaws. As an adult, I have begun to realize how much I hate allowing my weaknesses to show. I do not like appearing vulnerable. When my weaknesses are exposed, I open myself up to ridicule. I still have issues staying in my comfort zone today, for it is there I feel safe. For instance, I get very nervous talking in front of people. If I know I am going to be up in front of a group, I allow myself to become quite nervous about it for some time before it, dreading it, for I do not want to get up there and fail. When I do stumble on my words or appear noticeably nervous, it is due to the fear I have built up inside myself. I have built up that fear due to doubting my own abilities. I doubt my own abilities because I have failed before, and I do not want to appear weak. I hide in my comfort zone and often do not step out from it, for I do not have confidence in myself to succeed outside of that comfort zone.

The other major repurcussion is that it made me build up emotional walls. I put myself in an emotional shell to protect myself. I stopped caring what people said about me. I made my emotions inpenetrable. I would no longer let myself be hurt by the words of bullies. On one hand, this allowed me to repel insults. I could (and still often do) make fun of myself. This has led to my overuse of sarcasm. That being said, this also led me to put other people at a distance. If they're not close to me, they can't hurt me. I put my emotions in a safe and did not allow anyone access to it. This means that I have not allowed myself to be as good or as close a friend as I should have been with some people. I have often not been as emotionally available to friends when they needed it. There have been stretches of years where I have not cried. (I mean really crying, not just getting "teary-eyed.") Even now, I believe I have not cried in three or four years.

It also caused me to become what some people may describe as a "pushover." I often do not interject my opinion into things and am rarely assertive, and I usually let other people have their way. I do not enjoy debates or heated discussions where other people have different opinions than I do. I do not like people thinking less of me because of my opinion, so I often keep it to myself.

I rather enjoy writing and believe I may have some ability in it, yet there have been times in the past when I have gone stretches without writing, because I doubted my ability in it. I doubted whether anything would ever come of it. I doubted if I had the talent to make it worthwhile. I had no confidence in myself, and why would I work so much on something, when I had no confidence in its ability to succeed?

I do not want to be seen as a failure. I do not want to appear incompetent. So I do not allow myself certain opportunities, because I do not want to allow myself to fail, and I do not want to have people look down at me because of it. I stay in my comfot zone and do not let people too close, for in my comfort zone, I will not fail, and if I keep myself in an emotional shell, I will not let people close enough to see my weaknesses. I try to remove all possible vulnerabilites from my life, for I do not want them to be exploited. I do not want to be looked upon as weak, or as a failure.

At the end, there is a reason I am sharing this. God has granted me the opportunities and the strength to step out of my comfort zone more in the past couple years. I have done things that, only a few years ago, I would never have done. I have much more room for improvement, yet I believe that God will continue to work in me, and that plan will be fully carried out in my life.

We all have our own weaknesses and faults. We all have limitations that are holding us back in some way. Perhaps only we realize them, or perhaps everyone but us realizes them. The truth is that God knows and understands our weaknesses, and yet loves us and uses us anyway. He has great plans for each of us, and those plans will succeed despite our weaknesses. We must not allow our own fear and our own faults to limit what God can do in our lives. It's not really about the weaknesses themselves, it's about admitting that we are weak, and that only by placing our full trust in God can we truly become the people He made us to be.

Shame

We've all done it. We see God's truth being mocked or degraded, and we simply walk on by. We see someone lost in the world, yet we do not stop to share with them what we know to be the only road to salvation. These are victories for the devil, for though we know the truth, he causes us to be ashamed of what we believe. The world mocks us for believing in and living for Jesus, but they mock because they do not know.

The light shines in the darkness, but the darkness has not understood it.
- John 1:5

We cannot allow ourselves to be deceived by the forces of evil in the world, for we know the ultimate costs for the decisions we make. We know that a life without Jesus is a life bound for Hell. We know that the Earth is full of people who do not know Jesus, and for their sake, we must not fade when Satan tries to make us feel ashamed. Even if we know that we may be rejected or mocked, we must stand firm in the truths that we know, and we must realize that our feelings of rejection are worth the eternities of unbelievers. God did not save us so we could hide our belief. We must stand up for these truths.

This world is not our home. We must not be concerned with how the world sees us, for it is not the world that saves us. It is God that brings us salvation, and we are now in this world to share the good news with the nations. What good is it if we shrink into the shadows and do not stand up for God's truth?

God, give us the strength to be not ashamed of our salvation. Show us how to live without fear of rejection. Teach us how to be shining examples in this dark world. Grow us to be strong in our faith and immovable in our convictions. Mold us to be the tools of your will, created for a purpose, and unafraid of the consequences of living for Christ in an unbelieving world. Thank you, Lord, for all you have done for us. Amen.

Whoever is ashamed of me and my words, the Son of Man will be ashamed of them when he comes in his glory and in the glory of the Father and of the holy angels.
- Luke 9:26

Hating the Sin

I sometimes find myself being judgmental. I see someone doing something that I believe to be sinful or foolish, and for a moment, I change the way I think about them. Yet, I then have to remember something: I'm no better. Sin has caused me to stumble just as it has done to others.

I find myself justifying my sins and condemning others, as though there is an understandable excuse to my mistakes, and the mistakes of others are simply due to their own bad decisions. No, a sin is a sin, and each one does the same thing: it separates us from God.

There is sin all around us. Each person we meet will have a sinful past, and each one will be struggling with things in the present. If we look at each other based on our mistakes and shortcomings, then we should all have terrible opinions of one another. Yet this is not how God sees us. If we have accepted Christ as our savior, then we have been cleansed by the blood of the Lamb, and our sin no longer defines who we are. We are dead to sin, as the Bible says.

Hate the sin, not the sinner. We are to treat one another with love and compassion. Confront the sin: fight it, resist it, remove it. But don't push the sinner away. If each sinner was condemned for their sins, we would each be where we deserve to be: Hell. Yet each one of us has been given the gift of eternal life. We have each been forgiven for all the sins of our life: past, present, and future. Instead of Hell, we are here, and we need to see each other as God sees us: forgiven people, and children of God, no matter our sins.

As Jesus said, "May the one without sin cast the first stone." Put down the stone and love each other as Christ has already loved you.

Christianity is Not God's Plan

According to the labels of the world, I am a Christian, a follower of the religion known as Christianity. From an outside, unbelieving perspective, that makes sense, but it isn't what God wants for us. We should not label ourselves merely as Christians, but as Christ-followers. We should not simply be a follower of Christianity, but we should live as a part of the body of Christ. Christians are not just another subgroup of society, another label to throw around and apply to people with certain preferences.

Religion is man-made. It consists of rituals and regulations. It is something that man created in order to give a name and structure to our beliefs. It makes sense to do such a thing, certainly, but we shouldn't live for Christianity, nor should we look at our faith as only a religion, for that diminishes our faith and minimizes God's influence in our lives. God is real and his promises are true; we must live for the truth instead of living simply to follow a religion. But how do we do that? How do we live for God instead of living for a religion?

Understand that God is real and that He loves you, just as you are. He doesn't only live at church. He doesn't only talk to those people who are living righteous lives, and here is the truth: none of us are living righteous lives, and no amount of religion is going to change that. We are all sinners, each and every one of us, and that sin is separating us from God. There is no power you hold and no good deeds that you can do that will erase that sin. It is there, stained on your heart, and God knows it. He sees it and yet, He love you anyway. It is only the power of Christ and the sacrifice that Jesus gave on the cross that will wash away our sin. A lifetime of good deeds won't do it, neither will following every commandment or fulfilling every religious ritual. No amount of effort on your part will even lighten the stain. Yet, in an instant, the stain can be gone. It is not in our power to become sinless, but God has already done what is necessary to wash that sin away. All that we can do is say yes. Yes, God, I believe you are real, I believe you are more than stories and more than a mere religion. Yes, God, I believe your son came and died for me. Yes, God, I believe you have washed away my sins. Yes, God. Yes.

And then you will be saved.

It is grace that saves you, faith in the sacrifice of Christ. It is not baptism, for that is mere water. It is not communion, for that is merely bread and wine. There is no offering you can give and no service you can perform. All that can be done to save you has already been done by the son of God. You just need to believe.

Life is not about perfect living, for that is something none of us can accomplish, not even those who have accepted Christ as their savior. Yet I try to live my life in certain ways because I seek to live by God's standards, not because I live to fulfill some religious legality. I choose to live my life by those standards because I know I have been saved, and because I choose to show my love for God in that way. For instance, it was a long time ago that I decided to save myself for marriage, not because I did not have certain desires, but because I truly believed that it was best for me to wait, and that following God's commandments would bring me closer to Him. I did not do it because I felt it was the "Christian" thing to do, for living as a Christian isn't the point. I felt it was the Godly thing to do. And now, being married for almost five years, I know it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Righteous living will not save you, but being truly saved gives you the desire to live righteously, and to become closer to God. It is the relationship that matters, not the religion. Live righteously out of love, not out of obligation.

Church is a valuable part of life. We can worship God together and gain understanding of Him and His plan. We can form relationships with other believers and partake in Godly fellowship. Yet we must not live for church, for that is not God's plan. We must live for God. Salvation does not come from the church or any other Christian organization. Such institutions are often valuable assets to our faith and can do many great things in the world, but that must not be our focus. Christ is our focus; the church and other Godly entities are tools for God to use in our lives and throughout the world, but they are not something to live for. We must keep our eyes on God.

The Bible is not a mere guide, like a how-to book for computers or some other hobby or activity. The Bible is a God-breathed document that we should consider to be the greatest words in the world. God gave us His book to teach us and rebuke us, to correct us and to train us. We must not view it as simply another book, but the book that holds absolute and eternal truth.

In closing, we must not become wrapped up in the squabblings of religious people. God created us and redeemed us to work together as the body of Christ, and we must not trap ourselves in meaningless bickering about unimportant things. God is truth and Christ is our salvation. Let us come together not as followers of the same religion, but of lovers of the same great and glorious God, for it is the same blood that saved each of us. To God be all glory, from this day forward, into the eternity that we see before us.

Thank you God, for your great love, and for your sacrifice. Show us how to live for you. Show us how to love like you do. We know you are the absolute truth of life, and nothing we can do will ever repay what you have done for us. We love you, now and always. Amen.